’ syntax that tells you that your correspondent is typing in a language that is not his mother tongue. If you genuinely think that Jo, the perky Nebraskan who fancied a holiday in Sub-Saharan Africa only to immediately have her (his) money and passport stolen, picked you out as the recipient of her (his) distress call because you are better looking and more engaging than the long line of other mid-thirties guys who haven’t seen the inside of a gym since 2004, then you have another thing coming.
But one thing that volunteering as a moderator on Ok Cupid has taught me is that it’s not just the Nigerian scammers who have a grasp of English shakier than Greece’s medium-term fiscal policy – more depressingly, it’s local morons too.
For the last few months, I've sat on my couch while trawling through dating profiles that have been reported by members who think they have spotted the tell-tales signs of a fraudulent user, or are shocked by a naughty profile pic, etc.
Data is already public.” This sentiment is repeated in the accompanying draft paper, “The OKCupid dataset: A very large public dataset of dating site users,” posted to the online peer-review forums of Some may object to the ethics of gathering and releasing this data.
However, all the data found in the dataset are or were already publicly available, so releasing this dataset merely presents it in a more useful form.
I have seen things that will stick with me until the end of my days and I'm pretty sure I'm going to hell for writing this article.
The following dating profiles are real; these are real dating profiles by real people.
One of my favorite websites recently has been OKCEnemies.
The site showcases the dark side of internet dating, specifically from dating site OKCupid.
If your correspondent writes like a nine-year old who has drunk a litre of Red Bull, save yourself many hours of emailing and send a £50 postal order to a randomly selected internet café in Lagos. Pro tip: if you’re suspicious, try Google Image Search.
If you've used a dating site or app like Ok Cupid or Tinder, you'll have noticed the hundreds of fake profiles that exist on the sites, seemingly designed to make you hand over your profile to scammers.
It details how scammers operate fake dating site profiles in order to con men out of money.